If chemistry is the driving force behind the desire to know more about the other, comfort is being secure in one’s knowledge.
If chemistry can be described as a shaky impetus to a relationship, comfort is when the real thing begins.
If chemistry is an elusive spark which makes you respond to a person, comfort is the quiet force which makes you accept a person.
If chemistry is difficult to rekindle when extinguished, comfort can only attain newer levels during its journey.
If chemistry is fragile enough to fizzle out in the course of a relationship, comfort can be described as something solid.....and reliable.
If chemistry keeps a relationship alive, comfort maintains the relationship at peace.
If chemistry is the driving force of any relationship, comfort is the stabilizing force.
If chemistry provides the zing in a relationship, comfort provides the (much-needed) balance.
From day to night......from verbatim avowals to silence......from confusion to clarity......from verbal to non-verbal......from chemistry to comfort, time’s the only referee.
18 comments:
Well said!. But I guess chemistry comes before comfort.
-/Avi
As I described, comfort takes a relatively longer time to get established. But ya, chemistry can pave the path for it.....
Whoa! Profound!!
-/Shruthi
Thanku thanku :)!
Could not have put it better! There was a real tingling sensation in my stomach as I was reading it!!
Good one Chitra, good one!!!
-/Angii
Thanku thanku kaNo! It means a lot coming form you :)!
wow!.. nice thought!.. what you started to do something with psychology?..
-/Sujith
Aaaah.....the complexities in human relationships - they are not as easy as they seem to be on the surface :)!
Well written!!
Very matured thought!
An interesting follow through post!!
Nice!
-/Namesake and Jay
Thanks :)!
Both. Yup, both are needed to keep the relationship going. Or so methinks...
-/Casa
Ya...me too...me too :)!
yeah thats true.. relationship are highly complicated and the more think to decipher, the more we get lost!.. but there seems to be a time when everything is clear!.. just like you wrote!....
-/RK
Thanks!
-/Sujit
Yup!
Perhaps the so called chemistry is just a flagpost, to know the spot and decide whether to depart or not, and comfort at the other end,lets you know whether one has arrived or not.
-/Dev
How true... :)! And very few are lucky to achieve envisage that comfort at their first flagpole.
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