Sunday, May 14, 2006

And the right answer is....

The basis for this question was a communication workshop which I had attended as a part of my training plan. Though this was more oriented towards the business requirements, it did make me realize what a vital role communication plays in our life - both personal and professional.


Angada and Chitra (noooo.....this is not me) came close to guessing the right answer. But Ravi waked away with the prize on his second guess – he had so much of clues/comments to start with. Three cheers for Ravi
:) !


On a much serious note, how many times have we felt "if only we had talked, things would have worked out better"....."if only we had managed to communicate"...."if only I had not been so egoistic"..."if only I had been honest enough"..."if only....."?


Unspoken thoughts....relationships ending before they even begin....smothered feelings....pangs of loneliness....


Unfortunately, communication's a two way process – an echo effect. But what if there's no corresponding echo?


Life goes on....we move on...without regrets.....once we let go.....

27 comments:

Khushi said...

//if only...

u know what,
the regret you feel,
For things not done…
For words not said…
For love not shown…
is much harder than the one when you've done all these and dint get the echo...
so...... :) and move on... you played your role ateast :)

chitra said...

-/Khushi
Ya...I know...I know....:)!

Jay said...

"once we let go."

Agreed!!

But thats the "difficult" part!

chitra said...

-/Jay
Sigh.....ade irodu problemu !! But then, it grows only when we give importance to it, right?

chitra said...

Chitra,

I had guessed it. Saying the right thing at the right time is so imp....Things which are unsaid should remain unsaid..

My blog on gifts was one such thing... Now i am having second thoughts on whether Should i have written it...

Anyway, nothing can be done now.

Somehow, i never learnt it and let alone master it..

chitra said...

-/Chitra
Hmmm...depends on the circumstances, my-namesake. And the blog is yours...completely yours - no-one can dictate what to do with your blog :)!

endevourme said...

#khushi
whatever u have written is so nice,
it can make another complete post :-)
#chitra
that was interesting...
but end was like a hindi movie;-)
very filmy...

chitra said...

-/Endevourme
Hyuck hyuck...real life is stranger than reel life :D!

endevourme said...

yaaaa... thats true,
we dont even listen to our own self...
so much of internal monologues and dialogues keep happening...
we really dont listen to our-self.

Avinash said...

Talking 90% of the time?.. that did mislead me to some extent.. :).. But then, I should have considered the author is a female.. ;)..

BTW, the point you made was very true. One must communicate his/her feelings to the other.

chitra said...

-/Endevourme
Listening to ourself....hmm..I guess that can be acheived if we have some quality time for ourself. What do you say?

-/Avi
Hyuck hyuck...carefullu...treading on dangerous watersu!

Avinash said...

I know... :)

endevourme said...

hummmmm,,,
'quality time..'
sounds good..
but what do u mean by that?

aa said...

alright. so the word was "communication" that you did not want to communicate to me when we were talking last night ;)

Enigma said...

i agree, we always wonder wht went wrong wht we could have done to amke it better, we balme ourselves others :) ventually accept teh afcts n move on. :) i guess foregetting thinsg is a boon by god that makes our lievs easier n better

Anirudh said...

Good Work!

chitra said...

-/Avi
:D!!

-/Endevourme
Devote some time to yourself...understanding yourself. Only then would you be able to understand others, right?

-/AA
Ahem...suspense magaLe...suspense :)!

-/Enigma
Ya...move on, we can...forgetting ..hmmm....slightly difficult.

-/Anirudh
Hey..thanks !

endevourme said...

#chitra-
last night???suspense???
daal mein kuchh kaalaa hain !

chitra said...

-/Endevourme
Is it...?? ;)I love kaali daal :D!!

endevourme said...

#chitra
hehehe...
daal mein kaala to thik hain,
yahaan to poori daal hi kaali hain...
please now, suspense break maadi...

chitra said...

-/Endevourme
Huh *with a hoity-toity expression*..I only break ice...not suspense. :D

endevourme said...

#chitra
but...but...then you should not create it in the first place,
,,,,
suspense break maadi :-)

chitra said...

-/Endevourme
Tee hee...it's all in your mind :)!

endevourme said...

you talk about flow of communication...
and now keeping silence
,,,please,,,
suspense break maadi :-)

The Avenger !! said...

thats right chits. I am enjoying it to an extent. I guess the change is inevitable, but I have to move on and get over it....

chitra said...

-/Endevourme
There's no suspense in the first place. Where/How do I break it? :)

-/Sudhir
Move on..yes...get over it...not really possible :)!

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