Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Meri marzi....

“Okay, to start with, he should be taller than me but not so tall so that I have to crane my neck uncomfortably to even look at him.”

“He should be older than me (of course), but no so much that there’s a tangible generation gap between us.”


“He should be good-looking but not that good-looking that I look like a hag beside him.”


“He should be intelligent but not too intelligent that he has to express concern about my lack of intelligence.”


“He should be smart but not so smart that he poses a healthy competition to a walking encyclopedia.”


“He should be independent but not so independent that he should not need me at all.”


“He should be focused for all the right reasons in life and not something as silly as the decreasing length of ladies’ skirt.”


“He should be kind, considerate and understanding but not to the whole world, and definitely not to people who do not deserve it.”


“He should be practical but not too practical that the connecting emotions are overruled.”


“He should be an optimist but not at the risk of being unrealistic.”


“He should be dominating but he should know where to draw the line between a dominating demeanor and an overbearing attitude.”


“He should be a believer in something called chemistry between two individuals (in particular me), rather that biology or physics or whatever.”


“He should have a good sense of humour but not so much he goes overboard with corny jokes which I can barely understand.”

“And ya, he should not tell me to cut my hair just for the sake of something called fashion.”

One of the few times, Mom must have felt like throwing her hands up in the air thanks to her ‘difficult’ daughter. And all I was trying to do was to be funny :)! Aah...wrong time, wrong place and wrong subject!


At last, I relented at her exasperated expression and confessed, “Well......I am not sure what I want. But I am quite sure as to what I do not want!”

And to start with.....well....that will take another post altogether.

26 comments:

Khushi said...

ha ha ha!!!
Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuper listu...
Innu, Dressing sense, Studies, Salary, Attitude, ella add madabahudu :D

PS: Mostly I'm the first visitor of ur posts :D

chitra said...

-/Khushi
Tee hee...it's all about women's instinct (remember?) !! Sikkidaaga above listed qualities mele first-hand info koDtheene :) !

Shradha said...

I told my mom I wanted to marry a llama farmer in Ethiopia..hehehe!

chitra said...

-/Shradha
"llama farmer"?? Oh my God...too good :) :)! Me more interested in the reaction :)!

Anonymous said...

the title of the post shud ve been MERE KHWABON MAIN JO AAYE than MERIMARZI:-)

chitra said...

-/Anon
Mere khwabon mein?? The problem is I hardly remember my dreams :) !

Shruthi said...

Abso-LEW-tely wonderful!!!
The more I read your posts, the more surprised I am that you seem to be so much like me :D

"I am not sure what I want. But I am quite sure as to what I do not want!” --- this line is valid for me too ;) [not about guys, no no.. i am happily married now ;)] IN fact my father always says this about me ;)

Btw, about your request in my blog -- Ok, watch your inbox :)

chitra said...

-/Shruthi
Tanku tanku..I am always delighted to meet like-minded people. And I am NOT being sarcastic here :) :) ! Oooh...me waiting eagerly :) !

Shradha said...

Her reaction was "yaake? nim officenalli yaradru Ethiopia navaru iddara?"

Hehe..moms! I wrote abt it here btw http://shradharev.blogspot.com/2006/03/looking-for-my-hero.html

:)

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aa said...

thats a long list of requirements!! i wish your mom a very good luck in looking for a guy for you!!

Anonymous said...

so-called-doDDa: ishTena?.. :)

chitra said...

-/Shradha
Tee hee... :) !!

-/Vick(s)
Duh...I do not think so :) !

-/AA
Ya ya....me too!

-/so-called-doDDa
Illa..innoo ide...the list continues :) !

Vikram said...

arrey.. me kidding ok? :(

Anonymous said...

so-called-doDDa: nin ganda aagovnannantoo gothhilla.. aadre ninna ammanna devvane kApAdbaeku.. shaitan bachaye antaralla haage.. :).

chitra said...

-/Vick(s)
Tee hee gotuntu maraaya :) !

-/so-called-doDDa
Neevu iddeeralla samaadhaana maaDlikke :)?

Art said...

Chennagide list.. huduganna meet maadiga checklist maadikondu hogu.. sakat aagi iruthe.. :)

lakshana said...

*ah! that sounds like an ideal guy...does one exist? *SIGHS HAVING A LONG FACE*...

*hey.. i quite often make choices based on what i dont want more than wat i want..(although it isnt healthy... its worked so far...ummm well almost :P )

chitra said...

-/Art
Hope you too find it useful (wink-wink) :) :) !!

-/Lakshana
Hmmm....maybe...maybe not. And ya. welcome to the gang (once again?) :) :)!

angada said...

Reading your blogs and listening to good music on my iPod - there can't be a better combination - except, may be, for the combination of Chitra and tea!
PS: Listening to "Fits You Good" by (may be) Bryan Adams

Rk said...

Regd "I am not sure what I want ...." I said the same things when I quit prev organisation. And I keep saying the same things over and over again when I have to make a choice.

A word of advice - it is the most crappiest of beliefs to hold on to, for we keep wandering and never reach anywhere. Honest suggestion, try to list what you want in your life partner (and of course, make a compromise).

Anurama said...

ha ha.. good list.. I could imagine ur mom's expression ;)

chitra said...

-/Angada
Tee hee :) :)!

-/RK
Sigh...I know...I know...

-/Anu
Sheesh...she was irritated da !

Hema said...

Haha...good post Chitra

chitra said...

-/Hema
Tee hee..thanks kaNe :)!

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