Friday, September 12, 2008

Chitraaz commandments

  • Life passes in circles - you get back what you give......good or bad......and sometimes exponentially.

  • You tend to learn not only from your mistakes but from others' as well.

  • A person who respects your time is worth your time.

  • If you can assess a person at a glance, you are experienced. If you can put yourself in others' shoes, you are sensible. If your mind scores over your heart, you are realistic. If you can bid for time, you are patient. If you have all these qualities, you are mature.

  • With passing time, the bar is raised for both good and bad.

  • The past shapes the present. The present shapes the future. The past cannot be changed. But the future can.

  • The acts of love are otherwise compromises done selflessly.

  • Marriage is like a jig-saw puzzle - there should be at least some compatibility between the pieces before time can fill up the gaps.

  • Pretence is very hard to keep up and if it slips, disillusionment creeps in.

  • Confidence and self-doubts are mutually exclusive.

  • If only love can be proved by mere words.......

  • A perfect relationship is one where in communication steps in from where attraction trails off.

11 comments:

Shruthi said...

Chitra, you are wise beyond your years!

Chitra said...

-/Shruthi
Tee hee....! But it can be a disadvantage you know....it's hard to meet anyone of my age who's of the same wisdom level :-|. All I have are older friends :D !

Amrita said...

shabash mere sher!!
You tend to learn not only from your mistakes but from others' as well. this reminded me of sth i had heard "learn from others' mistakes as well u may not live long enuff to make em all urself! "

Chitra said...

-/Amrita
Grrrrrrrrrr...I mean thank you :)!

RK said...

1-> I disagree.
2-> Right,but the diff in seriousness of learning is huge.
3->Yeah of course.
4->I am probably experienced, sensible..not sure about realistic and my other name is patience. But since I didnt score on one point, am I immature ? I disagree :)
5->True. In some cases, bar keeps going low.
6->Yeah.
7->No comments.
8-> :)
9-> Hmm..have to think about it..I am usually confident on starting something but I am doubtful on finishing the same well.
10->No comments.
11->Very generic and probably thats just one ingredient of perfect relationship.
-Rk(rkblogs.net)

Chitra said...

-/Ravi
Sighhhhh! There are 12 points and you've responded only to 11! Which answer relates to which point?

chitra said...

hi,

so much of understanding and clarity within 4 months ;)

Chitra said...

-/Chitra
Heeeee hee ! Two ...two...! The understanding was all there from the start. Clarity ...hmmm...understanding from a different perspective as well :-)!

RK said...

9-> ?!
10-> Hmm..have to think about it..I am usually confident on starting something but I am doubtful on finishing the same well.
11->No comments.
12->Very generic and probably thats just one ingredient of perfect relationship.
-Rk(rkblogs.net)

nalini said...

CHITRA
You are a revelation Yaar!Ur clarity of thought amazes me!Just goes to show that knowing someone and understanding that person can be two different things altogether!

Chitra said...

-/Nalini
Wow! Thanks for the compliment! Whenever I feel that I've understood a person, something new crops up :-)! It's like a bottomless pit....:-)!